Different Points Podcast
A podcast in short bursts. Each episode poses one question, and two people answer it from where they actually stand.
Roy Coughlan (The Podfather) and Catherine Llewellyn (Beingspace.world) sit on different sides of most things — life experience, worldview, the way they arrive at an answer. Different Points isn't about reaching agreement. It's about hearing two honest responses to the same question, side by side, in under 10 minutes.
No script, no debate to win. Just one question, two points of view, and whatever truth sits between them.
New episodes drop Monday through Friday. Pick a question, press play, and see where you land.
A podcast in short bursts. Each episode poses one question, and two people answer it from where they actually stand.
Roy Coughlan (The Podfather) and Catherine Llewellyn (Beingspace.world) sit on different sides of most things — life experience, worldview, the way they arrive at an answer. Different Points isn't about reaching agreement. It's about hearing two honest responses to the same question, side by side, in under 10 minutes.
No script, no debate to win. Just one question, two points of view, and whatever truth sits between them.
New episodes drop Monday through Friday. Pick a question, press play, and see where you land.
Episodes

Oct 31, 2026
#52 When to Push and When Not to Push
Oct 31, 2026
Oct 31, 2026
6 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine answer a listener request from Anthony Semeroff, a three-time guest on Catherine’s other show, who asked when to push and when not to push. Roy takes it as a question about pushing himself. He has goals in his business and pushes towards them, but he has learned to notice when the battery is going down and not fight through it. He gives last week as an example: Thursday was incredible and he got a huge amount done, then on Friday he was at 20 percent, so he didn’t push and simply accepted it. Catherine says she has a tendency to overpush until she collapses, and she is practising not doing that. For her the key is whether she is pushing for something or against something. If she pushes when she shouldn’t, she is fighting her own energy and intuition, and that is when it doesn’t work. On a project she pushes when there is traction and momentum, but when everything is failing it’s the time to analyse why, decide whether to stop or revive it, and push again once it gains traction. She also applies this to coaching: you don’t push someone unless they have contracted with you to do so, in a fully informed way, and you don’t keep pushing after the push they asked for. She wants no one to push her unless she has asked, and says the same applies in personal and work relationships, and for coaches and therapists. She closes by inviting listeners to notice what they are pushing today, whether it feels constructive or like fighting something, and, without pushing, to tell people about the show.
Timestamps0:02 - Welcome and today’s question from Anthony Semeroff: when to push and when not to push0:49 - Roy: pushing yourself, watching your energy and accepting low days1:49 - Catherine: pushing for vs against, projects with traction and pushing in coaching5:54 - Sign-off
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 50 Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #WhenToPush #Energy #Coaching #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
The transcript spells the listener’s name “Semeroff” and I couldn’t check it, so confirm the spelling before posting.
Oct 31, 2026
6 min

Oct 30, 2026
#51 One Small Step Today
Oct 30, 2026
Oct 30, 2026
3 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine ask what one small step you will take today. Catherine says she takes lots of small steps, but the one that matters right now is part of getting back into a good rhythm between work, relaxation, looking after her home, time with friends and her health. Today she is trying out a new version of that rhythm, and she started it by getting up at six, well before usual. Being ahead of the day makes it easier to fit in the small jobs, like the dishwasher and laundry, around her work and keep a flow going. Roy says that with so many businesses and so many balls in the air, he can feel overwhelmed by everything that looks important. His step today was to pick the big task first, the “eat the frog” approach, waking up at five to do it, and not adding more on top. He plans to focus on one or two money-making priorities at a time for the week, since hopping between three or four means none of them get finished and they just stay on the list. For him, the small step is the one that leads to the big steps.
Timestamps0:02 - Welcome and today’s question: one small step today0:25 - Catherine: getting up at six and trying a new daily rhythm2:16 - Roy: eating the frog and focusing on one priority at a time3:28 - Closing thoughts and sign-off
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 50 Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #OneSmallStep #Focus #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 30, 2026
3 min

Oct 29, 2026
#50 What Does a Good Life Mean
Oct 29, 2026
Oct 29, 2026
5 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine reach their 50th episode and ask what a good life means. Roy thanks listeners for coming back and says the show is doing well in the charts and downloads. For him, a good life is about being present, not about owning a beautiful house or a fancy car that never breaks down, a point he makes after his own car broke down at the weekend. It is the people you surround yourself with, being close to family and loved ones, and enjoying and nourishing yourself with good food, not junk and energy drinks. Catherine says there isn’t one good life for everybody. Some of her friends define it as skiing every year, homes in London, the country and abroad, several cars, private schools and staff, and for them that is a good life, until they realise it has become a burden to manage and no longer fits. She shares a recent epiphany: she had been working very hard towards something, realised she didn’t actually want it, let it go, and her whole life changed from a drudge to something beautiful, because her life was already good in the way she wanted it. Roy adds that he loves cooking and putting love into food for the people he feeds, while a friend who eats out or has food made for him is missing something that is part of Roy’s good life. Catherine agrees, saying she would often rather eat her own cooking at home than go out for a meal. She closes by asking what a good life is for you, whether you are living it, and if not, what adjustments, even negotiations with the people in your life, you could make.
Timestamps0:02 - Welcome and today’s question: what is a good life0:29 - Roy: reaching episode 50 and what a good life means to him1:41 - Catherine: everyone’s good life is different, and letting go of what she didn’t want4:07 - Roy: cooking and nourishing the soul4:40 - Closing thoughts and sign-off
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 50 Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #GoodLife #Episode50 #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 29, 2026
5 min

Oct 28, 2026
#49 A Question to End Each Day
Oct 28, 2026
Oct 28, 2026
4 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine ask what question ends your day. Catherine has two. The practical one is what she is doing tomorrow, which she checks or sets so she knows where her focus will go. The one she asks while winding down is how she feels about her day and her life, and whether things feel right. If something doesn’t, she uses a technique she was taught years ago called dream programming. She relaxes in bed, reflects briefly, then drops a request into her subconscious, such as asking it to resolve this overnight or give her clarity for the morning, and lets it go. She often wakes up with clarity, or a sense that something has resolved itself on a deeper level during the night. Roy says he does something similar when he wants an answer, but rarely, since he is usually crashing at the end of the day. He used to write his to-do list the night before and now sometimes writes it that morning, waking up naturally early and getting things done. He sometimes reflects on whether he enjoyed his day, but most of his thinking and strategising about his businesses happens while out on a walk, not at a set time at night. Catherine adds that with clients working on a gradual shift, they sometimes agree a specific end-of-day question tied to that project, so they notice subtle changes day to day, and she has made that a discipline for herself when working on something for a period of time.
Timestamps0:02 - Welcome and today’s question: a question to end each day0:20 - Catherine: what am I doing tomorrow, how do I feel about my day, and dream programming2:26 - Roy: to-do lists, reflecting on his day and thinking on walks3:29 - Catherine: project-specific questions with clients4:25 - Closing thoughts and sign-off
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 50 Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #EndOfDayQuestion #DreamProgramming #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 28, 2026
4 min

Oct 27, 2026
#48 Choosing Joy Intentionally
Oct 27, 2026
Oct 27, 2026
6 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine talk about what brings them joy and whether we can choose it on purpose. Roy’s joy comes from being around loved ones and being present with them. This weekend that meant cooking with his son and taking him fishing again, watching him get his hook caught in a tree and reel in seaweed, plus walks and conversations with him and phone calls with his mum. He also finds joy when people spread the word about him, like a recent case where someone in a business group told a stranger to talk to him, and it turned into a client. Catherine says a lot of things bring her joy, and often it comes from an unexpected miracle. She describes waking up to a tree outside her window full of tiny birds singing and dancing on the branches, like a tree decorated with singing ornaments. She also shares what happens when she puts a chicken carcass out on the grass: small birds arrive first, then ants, then bigger birds, and finally a bird of prey whose wingspan fills the glass door as it swoops down and takes it without touching the ground. Her other great source of joy is client sessions where someone shares something unexpected that they have done or realised, including a group who told her that the work they did on energy in organisations helped them save 2,000 redundancies. She takes no credit, but loves that the way they worked together opened something up. Roy adds that he loves watching nature outside his windows too, the foxes, pheasants, ants, the occasional hedgehog and, for the first time, a mouse darting out for scraps. Catherine closes by asking whether you can choose joy intentionally today, and do it for someone else, since other people benefit when you do.
Timestamps0:02 - Welcome and today’s topic: choosing joy intentionally0:21 - Roy: joy in time with his son, family and friends, and people spreading the word1:34 - Catherine: birds in the tree, the carcass on the grass and unexpected miracles with clients5:03 - Roy: watching nature outside his windows5:44 - Closing thoughts and sign-off
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 50 Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #ChoosingJoy #Joy #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 27, 2026
6 min

Oct 26, 2026
#47 What We’re Unlearning
Oct 26, 2026
Oct 26, 2026
6 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine ask what they’re each unlearning. Catherine starts by questioning the premise itself, wondering whether saying “I’m ready to unlearn this” is ever really true, since for her unlearning usually only becomes visible after it’s already happened rather than before. She gives two concrete examples from starting her podcast: she’d developed a slow, deliberate, slightly deeper speaking style from years of running groups and coaching, which worked in that context but put podcast listeners to sleep before the episode ended, forcing her to notice and undo it. She also had to unlearn the conversational habit of building on what someone else was saying, since solo episodes meant there was no one to respond to, and she had to find a different way of carrying a show by herself. Her conclusion is that no one really knows what they need to unlearn until they’re already in the middle of unlearning it. Roy frames his unlearning around belief systems shaped by real-world events: during Ireland’s Celtic Tiger years he believed the government was the best thing going, building roads and hospitals, only to later conclude the opposite. He describes a similar process around 2020, when he had to unlearn the belief that what was being pushed on everyone was actually good for them, piecing it together by bringing on different guests, researchers and scientists and reading extensively, even while facing pushback from people who initially disagreed with him before more of them came around. Catherine adds that she didn’t personally have to unlearn that particular belief, having been raised in a natural health environment with no vaccinations or conventional medicine, so the idea that the body is designed to heal itself was never new to her. But she watched many people around her go through that exact revelation, often as a genuine shock, since they’d been raised to believe the body left alone would simply fall apart, and she makes a point of naming how painful that specific unlearning process actually was for people, rather than pretending it’s easy.
Timestamps0:02 — Introduction and today’s question: what we’re unlearning0:25 — Catherine: unlearning her podcast speaking style and the habit of building on a conversation partner2:41 — Roy: unlearning belief in government and what was pushed on everyone in 20203:55 — Catherine: watching others unlearn that the body heals itself, and the pain of that process
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 47+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #WhatWereUnlearning #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 26, 2026
6 min

Oct 25, 2026
#46 Everyday Spiritual Practices
Oct 25, 2026
Oct 25, 2026
6 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine share how they actually practice presence day to day. Roy describes his approach as having evolved over the years into appreciating the earth, the sun, and the food grown from both, staying grateful for what sustains him and paying close attention while he’s out walking, enough that he notices when he feels out of sync and knows to step back, take a break, read, or simply stop staring at a computer. He’s not attached to any particular belief system, has friends across many religions, and sees everyone as part of a shared collective regardless of what they individually believe, with presence itself being the real practice rather than any fixed ritual. Catherine agrees and adds that remembering we’re all part of the same collective, no matter our beliefs, is itself a spiritual practice, one she has to actively choose, especially since she lives and works alone much of the time and can start to feel isolated before catching herself and remembering she’s actually connected to everything and everyone. She describes a deliberately playful technique she uses: sitting and telling herself, as if it were true, that nobody likes her, nobody cares, nobody wants to talk to her, and finding that within seconds laughter bubbles up because her body already knows it’s false, which is exactly the point, the exercise snaps her back to what’s actually true rather than what she’s spiraling into. She contrasts this with wallowing in boredom, loneliness, or lack, something everyone gets stuck in sometimes, noting that even her brother used a similar discipline as a kid, cataloguing what’s wrong then deciding what to actually do next. Alongside that mental practice, she names physical daily habits that pull her back into presence: stretching and feeling grateful for having a body, yin yoga, walking, dancing, and simply watching the sunrise or sunset.
Timestamps0:02 — Introduction and today’s topic: everyday spiritual practices0:29 — Roy: gratitude for the earth and sun, and noticing when he’s out of sync1:56 — Catherine: the collective, the “nobody likes me” game, and daily grounding habits
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 47+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #EverydaySpiritualPractices #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 25, 2026
6 min

Oct 24, 2026
#45 Living Your Values
Oct 24, 2026
Oct 24, 2026
4 min
In this episode, Roy asks Catherine point blank: are you living your values? Catherine says she’s doing her best, and that the honest answer involves two shifting things, she feels she lives from her values more as time passes, but also notices more clearly when she doesn’t, while becoming more forgiving of herself either way. She used to treat living your values as an all-or-nothing standard, where any slip counted as failure, but now sees her own human frailty as part of the point of having a life at all, since the whole purpose of being human rather than some disembodied spirit floating in the cosmos is to practice living from values and keep discovering what they actually are. She shares a specific moment from the previous morning, waking up with a fresh, first-day-of-life feeling and suddenly recognizing a way she’d been fighting herself, pushing for something she didn’t really want or care about, and the instant she let that go, the whole day opened up differently. For her, that kind of recognition isn’t about catching a failure, it’s a small awakening, part of an ongoing, organic unfolding rather than a fixed destination, and she notes that being stretched in life is exactly what reveals how courageous you really are and how closely you’re actually following your values. Roy responds that sometimes living your values isn’t even a conscious act, other people observing you and naming what they see is often what makes you aware of it yourself, similar to the ripple effect they’ve discussed before. He also frames staying aligned with your values as something you adjust in real time when life throws a curveball, using the image of taking a wrong side street, meeting an oncoming oil tanker, and simply reversing back to the main road as his metaphor for correcting course without losing the thread of who you’re trying to be.
Timestamps0:02 — Introduction and today’s question: are you living your values0:16 — Catherine: self-forgiveness, the morning realization, and the unfolding journey3:11 — Roy: values others see in you, and adjusting course when life throws a curveball
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 47+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #LivingYourValues #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 24, 2026
4 min

Oct 23, 2026
#44 The Ripple Effect of Kindness
Oct 23, 2026
Oct 23, 2026
6 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine explore how small acts of kindness ripple outward. Roy’s approach is less about grand gestures and more about how he lives day to day, letting a car pull out from a side street, stopping at a crossing even when he doesn’t have to, and in business or community settings, always asking how he can help someone rather than how he can sell them something. He points out the ripple effect isn’t really about immediate payback, it’s that the person you helped goes on to help someone else, who helps someone else, and eventually it circles back around to benefit him anyway, even though that was never the point. Catherine builds on this with a piece of research Roy sent her, that rudeness spreads like a virus, making the person on the receiving end more likely to be rude to others for up to 24 hours, and that kindness works the same way in reverse. She illustrates it with life on the narrow country lanes near her home, where drivers who meet head-on often have to reverse a long way to let each other pass, and nearly everyone does it with waves, smiles and good humour rather than frustration. She shares a specific story of meeting a fuel tanker on one of those lanes, telling the driver she couldn’t reverse because she’s a woman, only for a passing farmer to jump in and reverse her car for her, the two of them then praising each other so warmly it felt like a scene from a TV show. She also describes a quieter form of kindness, making genuine eye contact with people who are anxious or frightened, recalling a garden centre reopening after Covid lockdown where the masked, visibly anxious staff visibly relaxed once she made a point of smiling and greeting each of them directly. Her closing point is that kindness, including kindness toward yourself, costs nothing and changes how you feel and sleep that same day.
Timestamps0:02 — Introduction and today’s topic: the ripple effect of kindness0:25 — Roy: living it day to day and the ripple that comes back around1:18 — Catherine: kindness as contagious, country lane courtesy, and the tanker story5:59 — Closing thoughts and sign-off
Roy Coughlan · The Podfather NetworkWebsite: https://roycoughlan.com/Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 47+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academyBrain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/EMF Protection: https://protectfromemf.org/Health & Wellness: https://podfather.thefrequencyawakening.com/
Make the most of your calling. Book an Exploratory Call with Catherine: https://beingspace.world/#explore🤝 Join Catherine’s Being Space Community✦ Website: https://beingspace.world✦ Podcast: https://truthandtranscendence.com✦ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/catherinellewellynbeingspace/✦ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BEINGSPACEcatherinellewellyn✦ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beingspace.world/✦ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeingSpaceWorld
#DifferentPoints #RippleEffectOfKindness #Podcast #BeingSpace #CatherineLlewellyn #RoyCoughlan
Oct 23, 2026
6 min

Oct 22, 2026
#43 The Importance of Community
Oct 22, 2026
Oct 22, 2026
5 min
In this episode, Roy and Catherine explore why community matters so much and how differently it works today. Catherine opens with a relocation agent who used to tell her they’d find a neighbourhood full of her “like-minded people,” only for Catherine to point out that her like-minded people are scattered across the world, not clustered in one place. She breaks community down into layers: simple everyday kindness, like a neighbour who says hello or stops to greet your dog, and the deeper layer of genuine colleagues and peers, like the podcasting community she and Roy both rely on. Her core point is that humans are genetically wired to need and thrive in community, but what community actually has to provide has become far more multi-layered than the old village model, where one person tended wounds and another built houses. Roy approaches it through the groups he’s deliberately built around himself: joining, then forming, his own Toastmasters group specifically with people he liked spending time with in order to overcome his fear of public speaking, and later the business communities he’s part of, the Connected Leaders Academy and his own Authority Alliance (theauthorityalliance.com). His rule is to do things with people he genuinely enjoys, not people he’s chasing money alongside, since chasing the dollar tends to put you around the wrong people, drains your energy, and eventually falls apart anyway once people stop trusting each other and start trying to get one over on each other instead of lifting each other up. Catherine ties it together with research from a guest on her other show who built a questionnaire around happiness and toured the US asking people one key question: what meaningful community are you part of where you feel you genuinely contribute and are served in return. The people who had a real answer to that question were measurably happier than those who didn’t.
Timestamps0:02 — Introduction and today’s question: the importance of community0:18 — Catherine: finding your tribe, and the many layers community has become2:47 — Roy: building Toastmasters and business communities around people he actually likes4:01 — Catherine: the happiness research tied to meaningful community4:43 — Closing thoughts and sign-off
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Oct 22, 2026
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